I think we all have a little bit of  sympathy for Samantha Ronson for dealing with a cracked out Lindsay Lohan for so long. Her quiet DJ life quickly turned into a circus when Lilo came along.

And when she says that being Lindsay’s girlfriend was more of headache than anything..I believe it. But come one Sam…you were nobody until Lindsay came along. You were getting paid $200 a night to DJ in random clubs until Lindsay’s started co-hosting events with you. Suddenly you were spinning at the hottest clubs for $10K a night.

Sam told  The Times magazine: “To be honest, being with her was more of a headache than anything else. Everything I was doing I was already doing (before Lindsay).  “It just meant there were paparazzi pictures documenting it. It sucked, because I’m a pretty private person and I’d managed to stay under the radar for so long. But at the same time I’m not gonna not hang out with somebody that I care about because of that s**t.”

People are calling Lindsay Lohan out left and right lately. Everyone in L.A.  except for her mother and trashy sister are begging her to get help and outing her public drug use. No one more so than her ex-girlfriend Samantha Ronson.

Sam is so fed up with Lilo’s destructive behavior that she took to her Twitter page in the early Thursday morning hours to vent about how she acted at Timbaland’s birthday party at Drai’s in Hollywood.

“‘I’m not here. This isn’t happening.’ If I sing that to myself enough times will it be true?”

“One more thing- if you’re gonna be an idiot an do coke- do it outside the bathroom- some of us actually use them to pee in,” Ronson added.

Lohan quickly responded with her take on the evening:

“I’m pretty sure that @samantharonson just threw a fit @33years old and my friend tal @draishollywood illegally open NOW at this hour, Asked me, after being here jus for Timbalands birthday-to leave even though she stayed over just 2nights ago-tired of @samantharonson.”

Ronson retorted: “Jack and crack will make for some crazy tweets.”

Lindsay Lohan has been banned from LA club Trousdale for throwing a glass at her ex-girlfriend Samantha Ronson.

Witnesses told Page Six that Ronson was sitting with friends when Lohan stormed up and suddenly threw her drink — including the glass — at her on Friday night. A spy told us: “Samantha was DJ-ing and went to sit with her friends when Lindsay stormed over and threw a glass at her head. Glass flew everywhere, and Samantha looked really shaken up. The club owner asked Lindsay to leave and was overheard saying she’ll never come back.”

Don’t worry. Sam wasn’t hurt and continued to party with her pals. She even wrote on Twitter: “Just got a glass thrown at my head . . . Hmmm — wonder who did it.” ***Sigh..the drama!

Star crossed lovers or just a whacked-out / cracked-out washed up actress desperately crying for attention and help?

I think Lindsay Lohan falls into the latter category.

I actually thought that Lilo had gotten over her fake-lesbianism, but we haven’t seen her with any man since the break-up and given her major co-dependency issues that probably says a lot. Maybe she really is love with Sam. Maybe  Sam loves her and cutting her off until she gets help is the only left for her to do.

Did I just talk  myself into feeling sorry for Lindsay Lohan?

Lindsay Lohan was begging and pleading to be let into Samantha Ronson’s house around 6am Monday morning after she found out that her bitch had dinner with another woman.

Samantha had dinner at Nobu Sunday night with the recently engaged Drea de Matteo and Lindsay was furious. Paparazzi watching Lilo begging for entrance to Sam’s house then quickly after watch Sam kick her to the curb.

I feel a restraining order coming soon. This same episode seems to happen at least once a week.

On a side note: the Sam and Drea dinner was on the up and up. Drea is straight, engaged to Shooter Jennings and she and Sam and just friends.